3. You don’t take into consideration how your kids feel.
We’ve probably all been witness to a woman that gets a man and totally forgets her kids’ feelings. It’s almost too predictable: Dad leaves, mom moves in her new boyfriend and is so caught up in being a ”girlfriend” that she puts her mommy responsibilities on hold. You don’t have to permanently close the doors on dating, but you should understand your choice in a mate affects the whole family. If your child starts flipping desks in school, it’s not a coincidence or just he/she being a bad-A$$. Your child may have some issues that you need to attend to instead of obsessing over keeping a man.