“I’m leaving messages and voicemails, telling you ‘I miss you.’ Baby am I doing too much?” sweetly sang a naïve Paula Deanda desperate for new found love to last in the 2006 chart-topper “Doing Too Much.” We know this girl, have gossiped about this girl or have been this girl at some point in our love lives. As women, we sometimes desire to have a man so badly that we try to rush the comfort that comes with a naturally developing relationship. Unfortunately, that desire can read as desperation and make potential boyfriend material duck for cover. You might be doing the most if you’re engaging in the following behaviors:
1. You start canceling on your crew.
That funny little feeling called infatuation will have you believing that you should be spending every waking minute under your brand new boo. In fact, this is the best way to guarantee you’ll be sick of him before you can change your Facebook status. Make time to miss each other by maintaining your separate social lives.