Signs Sex Is More Than Physical For Him

December 13, 2013  |  
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Making love, screwing, banging, doing the horizontal mambo—it all means the same thing. Or does it? You can tell a lot about a man’s feelings for you by what he calls the act of intercourse, but if he seems to think the terms are interchangeable, you can still tell by how he goes about it. (So don’t worry: the guy you’re totally in love with who asks if you “wanna bang?” might be totally in love with you too). Here are signs that it’s more than just physical for your guy.

He kisses you on the head after sex

That kiss is purely for you: he gets nothing out of it. He knows it’s not going to turn you on, and it gives him no real “pleasure.” That is a kiss that comes from nothing but sweetness and care.

He gets upset when you get up too fast after

If you get up after sex to pee or get a glass of water, he whines sweetly, “Where are you going?  Come back quickly…!He isn’t done with you just because the sex is done.

He holds your face when he kisses you

Ah, every woman’s fantasy: to have a man cup our face ever so gently with both of his hands, and kiss us lightly—even without tongue.

He’ll have sex even when he knows he won’t climax

Either because he just climaxed ten minutes before, or he knows in his current headspace he won’t be able to orgasm, he still musters up the strength (and something else) to have sex because you want to.

He wants to make out for a long time

He isn’t in a rush to get to the finish line: he enjoys every moment of physical contact with you.

He likes to touch you down there even when you’re not having sex

After sex, when you’re both satisfied, panting, exhausted and piled on top of one another, he still likes to run his hands over your womanly parts. He just likes having access to such an intimate part of you because it’s you.

He wants to do positions, just because they’re fun

He initiates certain positions that he knows don’t get him any closer to climaxing, but that he knows you enjoy, or that give him a great view of you.

He likes to kiss a lot during sex

If a man has feelings for a woman, kissing her can bring him closer to climaxing faster.

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When he’s behind you, he keeps his face on your neck

When you’re in positions in which he’s behind you, he wants to keep his face on your neck or back—he wants your heads close together whenever possible, which shows a mental connection.

When he can tell you’re not in the mood, he doesn’t bug you

When he knows all you want to do is pass out, he gets into a cozy cuddle position with you and lets you fall asleep, not pestering you for sex.

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He plays with your hair/ears after sex

He just finds every part of you so adorable that he still pays you attention after sex. Playing with your hair or ears is completely non-sexual—it’s just sweet.

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He likes to watch you when you’re enjoying yourself

When something is feeling really good for you or you’re in the middle of an orgasm, you peek up (or down, or behind you) and notice he is staring intently at your face, taking in every twitch of your facial muscles. He gets joy out of your joy.

He makes eye contact often

Eye contact with a woman a man has no feelings with freaks him out during sex. But, like a kiss, again, eye contact with a woman a man cares about can bring him closer to orgasm, faster.

When he’s not in the mood, he still wants to touch you

Even when he has zero desire to do anything sexual, he still wants to cuddle you or just lay in bed with you, playing with your hands.

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