You’re more work than help
Relationships are about give and take, but we all get tired of giving sometimes. Once your relationship is well established and you know your guy isn’t going anywhere, it can be easy for those thoughts of, “Do I really need to drive over there tonight to be with him? When I just want to get a good night’s sleep alone/get some work done/catch up on my show…” And for a moment, having him around feels more like a burden than a joy. It doesn’t mean you don’t love him. It just means that like everyone, sometimes you are selfish and struggle with carrying on such a symbiotic relationship—they’re a lot of work!