You’ve lost all sex appeal to me
He’s farted in front of you, asked you to hand deliver toilet paper to him on the toilet, vomited in a bathroom you had to clean up, and he’s given up wearing his nice boxers that didn’t have holes in them. There is no mystery left there. Usually, however, if you’ve come to this state, most of the time it’s because you feel so emotionally close, that that turns you on enough. But, consider this phase like wearing those rose-colored glasses. Everything looks so warm and lovable but every so often, the glasses slip and you see all the cracks and think, “That is not hot!” Don’t worry: the glasses will come back on if you really love him.