Can you be less of a brute/more of a man?
If you’re dating a guy that likes to pick fights in bars, you’re probably often repulsed by how much he reminds you of the alpha gorilla in the jungle. You think, “Can you be less of a brute? You look mentally un-evolved. It’s embarrassing.” Of course, the woman with the more timid, “polite” man is often turned off when her man doesn’t make a sound in situations where he is offended or disrespected. You think, “Be a man!”