For National Matchmaker Day: The Dos And Dont’s Of Setting Up Friends
- By
Julia Austin
Don’t share their secrets
You will be privy to some information that you might want to share. Maybe it’s something one said about the other after a date. You really want to share it, because you want to help each person have the best chance of making this work. But you have to let nature take its course. Think of it this way: when two people who don’t have common friends date, they don’t have some middle woman telling them what the other is thinking/saying. And yet, they make it work. It’s not really healthy to the formation of a new relationship to have you, the matchmaker, stepping in and sharing with each person, secretly, what the other shared in confidence. Each should be allowed to reveal just what they want to the other, and that’s that.
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