Why You Can’t Have (Healthy) Love Without Self-Love
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Julia Austin
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What’s so wrong with wanting validation?
“If you are hanging all of your hopes of worthiness on other peoples’ actions, first of all, it’s just not a good strategy. But it’s also hollow and fleeting. Because everyone is on their own journey,” explains Hogi. “Other people will disappoint you. Even people who love you. Even people who are well-intentioned. It’s not anyone else’s job to make you feel worthy. So to have that expectation is setting yourself up for failure.”
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