Ignoring deal breakers
You meet a guy and it’s pippin’. You can’t imagine things feeling more perfect. But, there’s just one thing and it’s kind of a big thing that will ruin everything and cannot be stopped. For example, he’s moving to Atlanta for a job in three months. Or, he does not want children – he already has several from a previous relationship and tells you he’s all set. You can sense these boulders pummeling towards you, ready to destroy this relationship, but you just carry along. It’s usually easier to walk away before feelings get strong in these situations than to wait until it devolves into a painful mess.