Pining after the unavailable
You find a guy who you think is perfect for you but…he’s taken. He’s either married or he’s dating somebody. But the chemistry is there. You talk a lot. You know you could be good together. Maybe you even go so far as to…become a side chick. But the truth is that that arrangement rarely transforms into a legitimate relationship. There are a lot of reasons men don’t leave their girlfriends for their side chicks, which we go over here. If a man is not available and is not willing to make himself available to you, pursuing that is a waste of time.