Are You Wasting Your Own Time When Dating?
Looking for your “type”
Having a “type” is actually a form of being judgmental. Let’s say, for example, your type is a “alpha guy.” If you’re looking for exterior traits, then you’re assigning personality traits to those that may or may not exist. With this issue, it’s about communicating what really matters to you. Instead of putting, “I like an alpha guy” on your dating profile, think beyond that. Do you like guys who are…reliable? Ambitious? Family-oriented? Don’t take life too seriously? What are the underlying qualities you’re looking for? They won’t be found in a physical “type.”