Hoping to flip a non-committal dude
A guy tells you right away that he is not looking for anything serious. That’s okay, you say. You can change that, you say. Guys say that until they meet you, you think. So here’s what really happens with those dudes. You wait around, while they totally date/sleep with other women (as they said they would), hoping they just realize one day that you’re the one for them and…they never do. OR, you do somehow convince them to be monogamous/serious for a while, but they eventually realize that’s not in their nature and they cheat on you. It’s a waste of time and a heartbreak all in one.