How Unhealed Wounds Hold You Back
You’re the victim, even when you aren’t
Leaving old wounds unhealed and projecting that pain onto new scenarios, “Can result in a lack of accountability,” explains Holcomb. She says this is “Due to a mental perspective rooted in a valid childhood or past injustice that is being projected onto the other party in the disagreement.” But it’s being projected onto this individual, whether or not they are in the wrong.