If I’m making you dinner, I’m the boss
I’m guilty of this one: my partner will want to do the kind gesture of making me dinner. But, I have a certain way I like my food. So I stand around the kitchen “Keeping him company,” while I make comments about not putting the heat so high on those veggies or adding more Cumin to that sauce. Then he gets mad that I’m bossing him around while he’s doing a nice thing for me.