The Language of Love: How Miscommunication Leads to Complication
9. He says: “My ex busted the windows out of my Mustang because she’s a crazy, insecure Beyotch.”
You hear: “My ex was clingy, insecure and always overreacting.”
He means: “My ex busted me banging her best friend right before she busted the windows out of my Mustang.”
His ex may have overdosed on the crazy juice, but if your man speaks of a majority of his ex’s in a negative light and viciously insults them, maybe the problem was him and not them. And congrats, what was once their problem is now yours. A man’s ego and pride take a bitter blow when he comes out of a relationship on the losing end, but a mature man can openly acknowledge the part he plays in the demise of a relationship. Proceed with caution with a man who is constantly placing the blame on someone else; if your relationship ever ends he’ll be describing you as the “crazy broad” to the next chick.
