The Language of Love: How Miscommunication Leads to Complication

3. He says: “I couldn’t get to your call because I was busy.  Didn’t I say I would call you later anyway?”

You hear: “I had no intention of calling because I was too busy with all of my other chicks.”

He means: “If you call me more than five times in an hour, I will eventually stop answering your calls out of protest.  You have got to have something else going for you besides me.”

Let’s be honest, the world is filled with plenty of unfaithful men, but they aren’t all liars, cheaters and whores.  If you’re dating someone who is unfaithful, you are probably getting a lot more clues than a couple of missed calls.  After talking to a man so many times in a 24-hour period, he may begin to wonder why you have nothing else going on.  Many of our busy little lives are filled with work, family and plain old “me time”.  If a missed call is your biggest worry in a relationship, you have a lot to be thankful for.