The Language of Love: How Miscommunication Leads to Complication
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ToyaSharee
5. He says: “Usher, 50 Cent, Trey Songz, or whatever personal fantasy applies, is so gay.”
You hear: “I’m jealous.”
He means: “I’m jealous.”
Men have insecurities too, and one of the things they fear most is getting their heart crushed by the girl they finally give their heart to. So whether it’s your in-the-flesh personal trainer who is packing or Trey Songz on the TV screen, it can be somewhat threatening to a man when your eyes wander. Of course he can’t say he’s jealous. Jealousy is a natural emotion that when handled in a healthy way is usually harmless. Try telling a guy that. To most men, jealousy is weak and insecure, so they’d rather cast doubt upon your fantasy’s sexuality instead.
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