Kristina: My ex left me for his baby momma (he slept with her when our 2nd son was 1 month old & got her pregnant) 5 months ago, yet he claims that he doesn’t want to be there & it is just a convenience thing ( she basically supports him financially & I’m not going for it at all). However, he has done things with her that he refused to do during our 6 year relationship, they have taken professional family & couple pictures. We have 4 children together & although I miss him I have cut him off by not accepting his phone calls etc. Yet he tells all of his friends & family that I am the person he wants to be with, it is confusing me emotionally & I’m not sure how to handle it.
DY: You need to treat him how Stevie J apparently treats condoms. Basically, RUN the other way, and don’t look back.