Courtney: I’m starting a new relationship with a guy that I feel so far is pretty great; the only problem is I can already feel my old insecurities creeping up on me (is he really interested, does he just want to have sex, etc) do you have any tips on how to keep cool during this new phase? Is it something i should talk to him about, and how do I do it without scaring him off with my “craziness” thanks!
DY: Of course, the obvious answer to “how do I stop being crazy?” is “stop being a woman,” but since you can’t do that without some really painful surgery, I think you should just let him know everything you just told me. Explain to him that you’re still not entirely comfortable yet, and tell him why. (And, lemme tell you a secret: He’s probably feeling the same way you are0