Uh, Somebody Lied to You: 8 Misconceptions About Single Black Women

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Standards we set are too high, we’re too stuck up, and we’re just plain ‘ol angry

Because there always HAS to be something wrong with YOU if you don’t have a man, right? You’ve probably heard people say that our standards are too high, we’re too stank-a-dank-dank, or our attitudes are our downfall when it comes to finding and keeping a man. We boss our men around instead of letting them lead the way. If it isn’t one thing, thing it’s another. It’s a shame that when you won’t let yourself be subjected to any ‘ol kind of mess when it comes to men, when you like nice things or don’t like to walked over like a doormat and want to voice your opinion when things aren’t right, there’s something wrong with you. We don’t all walk around with a chip on our shoulder or demand that you make $100,000, live in a condo, want 2.5 kids, have a six-pack and drive a car 2011 or newer. But when we do have reasonable standards or don’t allow people to talk to us however, there’s a negative in that? Shouldn’t men and women all have standards?

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