How To Support A Friend Whose Choices You Don’t Support
Make her laugh a lot
Laughter is incredibly healing. If your friend is engaging in something dark, she probably doesn’t laugh enough. She experiences heaviness and seriousness and stress. Be a source of light in her life. Make her laugh a lot. Send her funny videos, pictures, and memes. By making her laugh often, you can remind her of all of the fun there is to be had in life, and you can perhaps help her see how little fun she’s having in her unhealthy situation. Just try to keep her laughing and smiling, and it might become obvious to her that that unhealthy relationship doesn’t allow her to do those things.