How To Support A Friend Whose Choices You Don’t Support

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Easy on the unsolicited feedback

Just as you don’t want to hear too much about her situation, she doesn’t want to hear a bunch of unrequested advice. The reality is that, if she holds up her end of the deal by not telling you too much, you should be able to hold up your end of the deal by not commenting too much. But still, you may feel the urge to give her guidance on how to handle situations. You may feel the urge to tell her she was weak or acted crazy in a given fight with her toxic boyfriend. If she didn’t ask for it though, don’t say it. Nobody likes unsolicited feedback.

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