How To Support A Friend Whose Choices You Don’t Support
Remember your own bad choices
When you’re at your wit’s end, do try to remember that you haven’t always made the best choices. You’re not perfect. Not even close. You have probably been in some crappy relationships that your friends had to silently witness. You’ve probably had some jobs that made you a nightmare to be around. You’ve probably gone through phases when you were doing “dumb” stuff – questionable stuff. Are your friends still there? Is this particular friend, who you’re judging now, still there? Well, then she probably deserves some grace and patience. You gave her reasons to leave you in the past and she didn’t. She deserves that from you now.