He feels you don’t trust him
Your partner feels like you don’t trust him, and that you aren’t treating him as an adult. He hates that you give him strict instructions each time he leaves the house on how to be safe. He hates that you interrogate him when he gets back. He feels like you don’t trust him to take care of himself, and you. And the truth is…you don’t. Because he doesn’t see things the way you do.