Stop Making These Excuses For Your Bad Boyfriend
- By
Julia Austin
He has trauma
Perhaps your partner has displayed some alarming behavior. He’s thrown tantrums. He’s made threats against his own life. He disappears for days on end. He drinks a lot. You say, “He has trauma.” If that is true, I am very sorry for him. I am truly sorry that he lives with that darkness. And now that I’ve said that, I must also say: you can’t be his therapist. A relationship must consist of two individuals who are healed and whole before coming together. That’s the only way it will work.
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