He’s nice to me, at least
He’s not very nice to your friends. Or your family. Or servers at restaurants. Or Lyft drivers. “He’s nice to me,” you say. Well, you’re not the only person coming around this man. If you still want other people in your life, then you need a partner who is nice to other people. (I also just don’t believe that a man who is mean to everyone else is somehow nice to his partner in private).