Surprise! He Has Feelings Too And This Is How You’re Hurting Them
When you ask someone else to be there
So you don’t want to be a needy girlfriend. You want to be an independent woman. You want to remind yourself that, should you and your guy breakup, you have the resources to carry on without him. For this reason, you automatically ask somebody else to help you. Whether it’s with choosing a car, fixing a sink or being there for emotional support before a big interview, you choose a friend or family member. But part of being in a relationship means making yourself vulnerable because it’s how your man feels that he is of value to you. Suck it up. And ask him to help.