Surprise! He Has Feelings Too And This Is How You’re Hurting Them
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Julia Austin
Saying “You always do this”
Women can be guilty of having selective memory. We can become disproportionately mad over one incident, forgetting that every other time the guy did do things right in that situation. We love to say, “You always do this” or “You never do this.” We speak in absolutes. And when we do this, we make a man feel like we’ve given him no credit for any of the times he did things the right way. Before you speak in absolutes, dig deep into your memory: does he really “always’ or “never” do this? Or is it just occasionally?
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