Surprise! He Has Feelings Too And This Is How You’re Hurting Them
- By
Julia Austin
Telling him he’s irresponsible
Men spend their developmental years trying to be good for their mothers. Sure, as kids they misbehaved sometimes. But they quickly learned that one of the most gratifying things was making their mothers proud. So, that need to make the women in their life proud is ingrained in them. When you tell a man that he is irresponsible, it cuts him deep. To their friends, they can appear lazy, incompetent and like they don’t have their life together. That doesn’t bother them too much. But if they look that way to the woman in their life, they feel that they have failed tremendously. So, take a moment to think if this is the moment you really want to tell a guy he’s being irresponsible.
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