Surprise! He Has Feelings Too And This Is How You’re Hurting Them
Canceling at the last minute
You think “Plenty of men have done it to me, so I can do it too.” We’re so used to guys flaking on plans, or not being the best organizers, or setting things up at the last minute that we think it gives us a get out of jail free card to call up our guy an hour in advance and say, “I actually don’t feel like going out tonight.” But don’t let the guy you’re with now pay for the crimes of past guys.