Surprise! He Has Feelings Too And This Is How You’re Hurting Them
- By
Julia Austin
Criticizing his “performance”
We don’t mean it as a criticism. We just mean it as a “next time, try this instead.” But women can accidentally say some pretty hurtful things after sex. Things like, “I was almost there but then you did this and I lost it” or “That position was weird for me.” Men are very sensitive about their performance. Try not to speak in negatives. If he does something you really like, make sure you really let him know that. He’ll make a mental note. If he does something that really bothers you, right after sex is not the proper time to bring it up. He’s feeling extra vulnerable then.
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