A new move
Moving to a new place is exciting but also very lonely. Suddenly you’re without that close-knit group of friends, you’re without your routine, the bar where “everybody knows your name.” You suddenly feel “un special” to anybody, so you desperately want to feel special to somebody. This might be when you decide to find yourself a boyfriend. He comes with an insta-group of friends you can latch onto and suddenly your empty schedule will be booked. Pause. As difficult as it is to build up your own new crew of friends, you have to do that work on your own because that insta-group of friends that comes with a guy could be just as easily insta-gone if you broke up. Build a life for yourself before trying to stick a man in it.