You recently went through a breakup. You meet a man that recently went through a breakup. It seems like you’re the perfect fit because you understand each other’s pain, and filling in that void of the ex right now sounds real good. Stop right there. You and this guy are not looking at each other for who you are at all. You’re just desperately running from the pain of your ex into the arms of whoever happens to be standing there. And once you are both actually healed from your respective breakups, you’ll probably come to find that you don’t like each other all that much. Because you never really knew each other.