Asking Too Many Damn Questions
“What do you like to do?”
“Why do you wear glasses?”
“How do you get your hair like that?”
Who. What. When. Where. Why. How. Fellas, yes women love attention. There is nothing more exciting than getting attention from someone you’re feeling. But — there is such a thing as overkill. We want to reveal ourselves to you; to talk about the things that matter to us allowing you to learn our ins and outs. But, forcing such an interaction can come off highly annoying and inorganic.
I once was getting to know a man who felt it necessary to treat me like a person on a witness stand in a court room. He fired off so many questions during all of our conversations, barely allowing me the chance to enjoy his company and get the opportunity to get to know him. It felt as if he were judging how much of a fit I would be as a future possible wife and mother to his kids from answers about my near-sighted eyes and choice to work in my community. Needless to say, we never got to take things to the next level.