Bobbie: Damon, my ex and I were together for 2 years and I’m 8 months pregnant with his first child. He has cheated and he left me for the woman he cheated with a month ago, he told me he didn’t want me and he wanted to be with her but recently he’s been riding by my house and blowing up my phone. I don’t answer his calls. Should I hear what he has to say or keep ignoring him. And when he left me he told me to take child support out on him. I don’t think we have anything else to talk about.
D.Y.: You two still do have things to discuss — child support, visitations, etc. But, that, and only that, is what you have to talk about now. The worst thing you could do is rekindle.