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You Justify Your Manipulating Ways By Someone Else’s Actions
When you do something to someone that could hurt them but in turn be advantageous to you, you justify your actions by thinking of something they have, or someone else has done in the past to you. Whether it is the ruins of a bad breakup that you didn’t want to see happen or a friendship that is now defunct, you now live by the “get them before they get me” way of thinking. Even if it were years ago, your justification somehow makes you feel better about your ‘using ways’ and the ways in which you treat the men and “close” girlfriends left in your life.