Your network is always rotating
If you struggle to hold onto relationships – romantic or platonic – you could be at the root of many of those breakups. Some relationships aren’t meant to last, and it’s healthy to identify those that are no longer serving you. But if your default setting is to only think of how they serve you, and your instinct is to cut things off the moment they become difficult, it may be time to self-reflect.
“Does your circle and partner constantly change? If so, this may be due to you finding fault and having issues with others that result in you pushing them out of your life and replacing them with others, only to keep coming to the same problem again and again,” Dr. Jackson says. “Rather than frequently changing the people in your life, do some soul searching to figure out why you do so.”