You always get your way
Do your days feel fairly easy? Do you rarely do things you don’t feel like doing? Well, there’s probably somebody who pays for that. When you make things as easy on you as possible in your relationships, it’s often at the expense of the other person.
“If you only ever do things with your significant other that you want to do, it probably means you’re not thinking about the other person enough,” Matthews says. “Start paying more attention to what your partner wants and what you can do to be better. It could drastically improve things.” This can even include simple gestures, like driving to his place sometimes, rather than having him drive to you every time, or spending more holidays with his friends, instead of always accommodating yours.