How To Establish Boundaries With Your Family
We know your “wonts,” what about your “must-haves?”
“Often, for many of us, we know what we don’t want, but we don’t know what we do want. We can say ‘I don’t want you asking questions all the time. I don’t want you giving me advice,’ but then, what do you want? Once you’re able to think about what your values are, where you are, and how your culture influences that, you can say to your parents ‘Here’s what I would like.’”