How Growing Up In A Militant Household Affects You
You check and re-check all is okay
For no reason at all and out of nowhere, you’ll often ask your friend or romantic partner or roommate, “Hey, we’re okay, right? We don’t have anything we need to talk about, do we?” You hated growing up wondering when conflict would take you by surprise, so now you try to get ahead of conflict – but there isn’t even any conflict there.