Also, that backup causes fights
Oh, and that backup beau you have is one of the reasons your relationships always end. Your boyfriend sees it—this new “friendship” you’re developing with this other dude. All the texting and the coffee hangouts. And you start throwing it in his face when you fight—you let him know the other guy never acts like he’s acting. Your very fear of being alone is causing you to do things that are ending your relationships.