Why I Think Sex Has Become So Fringe Today
Fear that someone else is better
Today, we know anyone we go out with (or sleep with) always has the option to just hop on the many apps, do some swiping, and find someone he perceives as better than us. We obviously hope someone isn’t in it just for the sex, or that someone wouldn’t leave us if there’s a real connection there, all for kinkier sex. But, we just live in a world where we know everyone has so many other options at their fingertips (in their phone). So there is pressure to be memorable in bed.