Why I Think Sex Has Become So Fringe Today
It’s a shortcut to reviving the spark
It’s common for couples who’ve been married for years to turn to the fringe stuff too—the sex dungeons, the swinging, the threesomes, the BDSM—as a form of reviving the spark. They may try this stuff for the first time after decades of an otherwise pretty vanilla sex life. Because, sure, whips and handcuffs can certainly provide an instant feeling of excitement.