Is Negative Self-Talk Ruining Your Life?
So you don’t engage, and that causes the break up
In the end, the reason the relationship ends is not because you did not have the tools to fix things. It is not because you are incapable of having a healthy relationship. It is not even because your partner was really that upset about the original argument. It ends because you disengage from the argument, believing you cannot fix things. And if there is anything that kills a relationship, it is lack of communication, and simply giving up.