Is Negative Self-Talk Ruining Your Life?
You attract the complacent
You might fear that the only thing that will happen if you speak up in your relationship is that you will either fight constantly, or your partner will leave. But there is a larger truth at play. Maybe your partner will leave you if you speak up. And that was the wrong partner for you. And if you are then bold enough to continue to speak up about your needs, you will attract someone who is willing to meet those needs. But you only get this if you are vocal about your needs in a relationship.