Truths About That On Again/Off Again Relationship
The longer it lasts, the harder it is to leave
The longer this goes on, the harder it will be to let go. You may think, “I just really want to see it out to the end” or “If it isn’t meant to be, it’ll become obvious and easy to walk away.” That’s not true. You’ve become attached now. There are codependency issues going on. Even if you feel in many ways that you hate this person, you’re addicted to this dynamic, and having more of it makes it harder to leave.