Truths About That On Again/Off Again Relationship
You’re talking the whole time, so it’s barely off
Oh, and you know you’re talking to this person the whole time it’s “off” so it’s not even off. You’re texting and calling and meeting for a “platonic” meal. You are not actually dislodging this person from your psyche and grieving the permanent loss of him, which is what you have to do to clear your mind enough to do your personal work.