Set the mood
He won’t just initiate it on a messy couch surrounded by dirty dishes. He won’t say, “Let’s squeeze in a quicky after we order the pizza and before it arrives.” He’ll make the place more sex-friendly. He’ll make you feel special. This could involve putting on music, picking up your favorite treat from the store, or lighting candles. But he works to turn your room or apartment from a utilitarian space to a romantic one.