Talk to you/connect with you first
If you say you’re just not ready yet, he’ll just keep kicking it with you on the couch. A mental connection is important for most women to become turned on, and if you say you aren’t ready, he’ll make sure you keep talking, laughing, and connecting until you’re in the mood. He won’t rush you, just because he’s rearing to go. He knows if he does that, it won’t be good for you.