7 Reasons Why You Might Be Alone

2.  Our exterior and interior do not match. Yes, it is true that out exterior is what gets a man’s attention.  The whole first impression thing.  This includes our smile, look, personality, attitude, confidence and overall attractiveness.  However, this outward appearance is not what lands you a man who keeps coming back for more.  Meaning, even if our interior is filled with our love for God, family, friends, honesty, supportive, respectful and emotionally stable qualities, our exterior might be keeping him from exploring that.  Obviously it’s important to find a balance between your exterior and interior by avoiding unhealthy emphasis on our appearance.  However, sitting in a dark corner with a sour face is not exactly a warm welcome for a potential great catch.  Put your best foot (or best shoes) forward and create a strong moral ground to round out your desirable package.